| Moving from one home to another is seldom easy and fun for adults and it can be especially troubling for children. The prospect of moving can create many fears in children. It's usually a fear of the unknown. Children fear things such as, “What will my new school be like?” and “Will I ever see my old friends?” The more information you give your children before you move, the easier it is going to be on them when they get to their new surroundings.
When you talk to your children about the move, be honest about the reasons for moving. Begin talking to them about the move as soon as it is confirmed, this will help them adapt to the change. In addition, make sure you speak about the move and the new location in a positive manner. Being positive will help your children feel excited about the move.
Urge your children to talk to their friends about the move and to swap addresses and telephone numbers. This will help so they don’t feel alone and pessimistic about the move. Once you arrive at your new home, allow and encourage your children to phone their friends and talk about their new home.
If at all possible, try and arrange a visit for your children to see the new house. This will make them feel more involved in the move, so perhaps even ask them which bedrooms they would like. Include them in the move by asking them to pack and unpack their own possessions (depending on their age).
When you arrive at your new location, help integrate your children into their new community. Contact local organizations that would interest your child i.e. sport clubs, drama, music or dance or visit the swimming pool.
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